Certainly luckier than the parents Adia knows, but she doesn't dwell on that. A birthday party is a happy occasion. "Well, I'm glad you have help. They look like a handful -- but in a good way." What toddler isn't a handful, though?

Adia laughs again, blushing a little at the questions. "He is pretty smart," she says shyly, "And I think he's pretty cute. He kind of looks like -- oh, never mind, that won't help, you won't know who I'm referring to."